Monthly Archive for February, 2010

I Couldn’t Pass Up A Line Like This

“It’s awesome, dude. You can launch a wiener in there.” -Tommy Lee (from the Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson sex tape)

So it seems that the mascot for the Kansas City Royals has an air gun. And from that air gun, he’s allowed to shoot hot dogs. And with that air gun, he shot a steaming hot wiener into a fan’s eye. 

I can’t take credit for that line. For that, you can thank TMZ.

Prostitution

“Escort, hooker, prostitute, whore – I don’t mind what you call me, that’s just semantics.” – Belle De Jour

I’ve been watching Secret Diary of a Call Girl lately. I’m totally in love with Billie Piper and thrilled the show was brought back for another season. I don’t want this post to go into all of the issues that surround sex work. I’m not arguing that I am any sort of sex work expert or that this show accurately depicts the lives of sex workers.

There is an episode in which Belle is with a client with whom the sex is mediocre and she’s fantasizing about it being someone else. One of the common remarks I’ve heard about why sex work must be so awful or should be outlawed is because the women couldn’t possibly be enjoying it. I don’t think all women in the profession enjoy the sex, but I’m sure some enjoy some of the sex. The character Belle claims that she enjoys much of it.

You do all kinds of things for work that you may not really like. And that happens in every profession. Even people who do work they love don’t love every minute of it. A teacher may love teaching and love their students, but there are still days when it sucks. And there are plenty of people in jobs they can’t stand because they have to earn an income somehow.

But that really isn’t the point of my post. That attitude assumes that women, outside of sex work, always enjoy sex.  I don’t mean rape, date rape, grey rape, or doing their “wifely duty” or any other pseudo rape crap. (It’s all rape as far as I’m concerned.) I mean consensual sex which a woman doesn’t really enjoy.

Women have sex all the time when they don’t really want to for plenty of reasons, from the noble (we want to please our partner) to the ignoble (to get some sort of material possession.) I don’t think I know a woman who hasn’t, at some point, started having with a guy, become bored because the sex is mediocre (or worse, bad) and kept participating anyway. I’ve done it. I got off so you should get off too, even if it takes you forty-five fucking minutes. And men put out when they don’t always want to as well. I don’t think the guy I used to date who wasn’t much into morning sex was being raped every time we fucked before 9AM. I’d argue that men do it less, but that’s not the point of this post.
So while Belle is laying in bed, fantasizing about some other guy, I’m not thinking “Oh my gosh that’s so terrible,” I’m thinking ‘We’ve all been there.”
And at least she was getting paid for it.

The Moving Walkway Of Racism

“Racism isn’t born, folks, it’s taught. I have a two-year-old son. You know what he hates? Naps! End of list.” -Dennis Leary

This is an amazing piece about racism by Alana. That post was spurred by this post over at Brit’s and the ensuing comments. Brit wrote her post in response to Champagne and Benzedrine’s post on privilege.

Here is an amazing quote by Beverly Tatum:

“I sometimes visualize the ongoing cycle of racism as a moving walkway at the airport. Active racist behavior is equivalent to walking fast on the conveyor belt. The person engaged in active racist behavior has identified with the ideology of our White supremacist system and is moving with it. Passive racist behavior is equivalent to standing still on the walkway. No overt effort is being made, but the conveyor belt moves the bystanders along to the same destination as those who are actively walking. But unless they are walking actively in the opposite direction at a speed faster than the conveyor belt – unless they are actively anti-racist – they will find themselves carried along with the others.”

I can’t say anything on race and privilege that Alana hasn’t already said ten times better. So go read.


Live Tweeting Abortion

“Whoever said that things have to be useful?” – Evan Williams, Twitter co-founder and CEO

@antitheistangie is live tweeting her abortion. You can see her Twitter feed here and read her blog here. She’s using the hastag “#livetweetingaborition.”

Thoughts?


Apparently You Can Judge A Book By Its Cover

“Never judge a cover by its book.” -Fran Lebowitz

This article, appearing in PLoS One, concludes that you can identify a person’s political affiliation simply by seeing their face. From the article:

“Here we found that individuals’ political affiliations could be accurately discerned from their faces. In Study 1, perceivers were able to accurately distinguish whether U.S. Senate candidates were either Democrats or Republicans based on photos of their faces. Study 2 showed that these effects extended to Democrat and Republican college students, based on their senior yearbook photos. Study 3 then showed that these judgments were related to differences in perceived traits among the Democrat and Republican faces. Republicans were perceived as more powerful than Democrats. Moreover, as individual targets were perceived to be more powerful, they were more likely to be perceived as Republicans by others. Similarly, as individual targets were perceived to be warmer, they were more likely to be perceived as Democrats.”

This paper follows a paper published in Journal of Experimental Social Psychology which concludes that people can identify sexual orientation in men just by looking at their faces.

And another paper published in Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in which,

“researchers demonstrated that perceivers were able to do this even when they were shown only individual features of the target’s face. For example, when shown only the eye region (“without brows and cropped to the outer canthi so that not even “crow’s-feet” were visible”), perceivers were amazingly still able to accurately identify a man as being gay.”




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