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Dating Advice From A Serial Killer

I pretty much disregard all advice that starts out with something along the lines of “Well it used to be better back in the olden days.” You should too. Perhaps the writer is nostalgic for a time that they see as better, but they rarely connect the dots between their specific issue and the larger context.

Take, for example, this bit of lamenting about how things used to be (no evidence for things actually being this way, apparently we’re supposed to regard the author as an expert on the history of American dating culture.)

No. 3 – I’ll pick you up at your place

There’s a reason we don’t do this anymore. It’s called serial killers. Oh and the growing autonomy of women to transport themselves wherever they damn well please.

No. 5 – Dinner, not coffee, not drinks

Has the author never been on a terrible date? I have. You know what makes a date even more terrible? When you realize your date is a raging misogynist before the appetizer arrives. Or racist. Or wrote this article. Or wants kids. (Okay, maybe one of those is only for me.)

No. 8 – The guy is supposed to pick up the tab

No. This is false. And heteronormative.

No. 9 – He’s supposed to take – or walk – you home

Do you not watch Criminal Minds? This is how people die horrendously painful deaths.

The rest of the suggestions are, as you would expect, also heteronormative, misogynistic and terrible.lecter

The Dish’s Feminism Problem

If you read Andrew Sullivan’s website, The Dish, you might be familiar with his latest controversy over feminism and SJWs. In short, Sullivan thinks that Twitter working with activists imagesto clamp down on threats of death and violence will lead to censorship.

Sullivan isn’t exactly known for his championship of women’s rights, or really, the rights of any minority group, despite being a member of the LGBT community himself. As many libertarians do, he claims his opposition to support such endeavors is because he doesn’t support:

“…identity politics that seeks to remove structural oppression by forcing others to say things they may not want to say, or do things they may not want to do, or by ostracizing people for whatever-ism they are found guilty of”

Because somehow Twitter working to stop death threats is an affront to all speech everywhere.

He does, however, support the freedom of what he describes of “rough and tumble speech” online. (I wouldn’t describe threats of death and violence as rough and tumble.) Yet, as this writer points out, doesn’t allow commenting on his own website.

Sullivan defends himself by claiming it is the readers who don’t want comments and that he publishes dissents on the site (like the one I just linked to) all the time.

As a reader of the site, I don’t believe for a second his first claim. If you don’t want to read the comments, you do. I never read, what I refer to as, the bottom half of the internet. It’s a cesspool of humanity that I don’t want to get involved with. Any reader who doesn’t want to read the comments could easily ignore them. It’s the owners of the site who don’t want to moderate comments. And I don’t think that Sullivan is afraid of criticism of him in the comments. I think he’s aware that the commenters will attack each other. Possibly with death threats. Which is bad for discourse. And he will be responsible for moderating that.

The second point is actually more irritating though. Sullivan wants us to believe that the dissents published on his site fairly and accurately represent all the dissent he gets. There is no objective way to verify this. Further, he, himself, gets the opportunity to respond the dissent (which he does in the piece I’ve linked to) without offering the opportunity for the original dissenter to do the same.

I don’t think this is censorship. I think Sullivan is allowed to do whatever he wants with his own site and that not being allowed to comment on a private website does not constitute censorship.

But I also don’t think that working with Twitter to make it harder to make death threats is censorship either. Threats aren’t “rough and tumble” and they aren’t “part of the discourse.” They don’t add to the conversation. What that do is bully people into silence.

People are forced into silence. The muzzle is threats of violence and death and rape. At least if you’re muzzled by Twitter you can appeal. Or, ya know, won’t be threatened with death.

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